Declining estrogen levels associated with menopause can cause more than those pesky hot flashes. They can also make women feel like they are in a constant state of PMS (premenstrual syndrome). Unfortunately, these emotional changes are a normal part of menopause.
Some of the emotional changes experienced by women undergoing perimenopause or menopause can include:
- Feelings of sadness
- Lack of motivation
- Difficulty concentrating
- Mood changes
If you’re feeling irritable and sad, there’s a good chance it could be related to menopause. But many things can make you feel downright irritable. Tell your doctor how you’re feeling, so they can rule out other medical or psychiatric conditions.
Although depression isn’t caused by menopause, studies show that about 20% of women have symptoms of depression during this time. It’s more likely if you’ve had it at other times in your life. If you’re feeling increasingly unable to cope, see your doctor. They may be able to recommend medicine, such as antidepressants, or therapy that can get you through this rough time.
How Can I Cope With the Emotional Changes of Menopause?
Irritability and feelings of sadness are the most common emotional symptoms of menopause. Often, they can be managed through lifestyle changes, such as learning ways to relax and reduce stress.
Here are some tips that may make it easier for you to handle your fluctuating emotions:
- Exercise and eat healthy.
- Find a self-calming skill to practice, such as yoga, meditation, or rhythmic breathing.
- Avoid tranquilizers and alcohol.
- Engage in a creative outlet that fosters a sense of achievement.
- Stay connected with your family and community.
- Nurture your friendships.
For a lot of women, confronting the aging process triggers emotional issues around menopause. It might help to adjust your outlook.
- Remember that menopause is a natural part of life.
- Think about what you’ll gain with menopause. For instance, don’t mourn the loss of childbearing years. Embrace the freedom that lies ahead.
- Get the focus off your crow’s feet and body changes and onto what you like about yourself. Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) can teach you to notice thoughts that make you feel bad, and replace them with positive ones.
- Seek support from your doctor or health care system, community, and other women.
Insomnia can be a cause-and-effect problem during menopause. Symptoms like hot flashes can disrupt your sleep, making anxiety and depression worse. Meanwhile, mood problems themselves can cause sleep problems. Hormone replacement therapy may help. So can exercise, relaxation techniques like meditation, and avoiding caffeine and alcohol.